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the guilt starts to creep in…

As I mentioned in a previous update, Edie will go to daycare full time from March 2014 (or nearly full time if we decide to try and work it so that she can spend 3 or 4 days at daycare with 1 or 2 at home).

Then something will happen, like she’ll have a sore tummy and one of us will need to hold her, comforting her and stroking her head until she is feeling better.

The dark thoughts start to creep in.

Who will hold my darling angel when she cries? Who will shush her and rock her and stroke her head? Who will sing Do-Re-Mi to her until she smiles again?

I love her more than I ever thought possible and I know how important it is to spend this time with her. Edie is absolutely too small to go to daycare now! However, I struggle with the “Groundhog Day” of nappies, naps, bottles, activity gym time, tummy time and walks. When plans get cancelled or I don’t have people to catch up with, I start to feel a bit crazy.

From 6 months old she’ll be fine there, right? With professionals who know how to extend her, help with her development and watch over her while I go and be an adult for a bit so I can be a better mum?

the best things – month 2

Product photos of this months best things.

Second month round-up already! These are our favourite things this month.

  1. Medela Symphony breast pump
    A complete lifesaver. Before I had Edie, I didn’t realise that there were other options besides either breast feeding or formula feeding (more on this in a later update I suspect!). When Edie hated feeding, the hospital started me pumping milk for her initially. The goal was to get her breast feeding but when it became apparent that it wasn’t going to come together, we hired this hospital grade pump from the Baby Factory. It’s been amazing. I can double pump enough for 1 bottle (and often more) in about 15 mins.
  2. Fitbit Zip
    I didn’t wear my Fitbit Zip much when my steps started to reduce as I got more and more pregnant. However, this month I used it to help motivate me and it really worked – I walked and/or pushed Edie approximately 200km in November without even realising it most of the time. The steps add up pretty quickly! It’s great to be getting out of the house (I find it much easier to walk with her plcaes than deal with car, car seat and pram) and it has been great to feel like I’m getting fit again.
  3. Philips AVENT Microwave Steam Steriliser
    When we came home from the hospital, we initially used the Karitane steriliser tablets in a large plastic tub of cold water. After a few weeks had passed, a couple of the bottle parts were getting a bit cloudy and we had the head space to get the steriliser out of the box and start using it. It’s been so great to know that we can have anything sterilised and ready for use within a few minutes – especially when I realise that I don’t have all the pump parts clean or something like that. Plus: not having to plunge your hand into a cold tub at 3am rules.

As we continue to discuss parenting roles and how to share them between us, this was an interesting article to read.

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